Thursday, December 15, 2005

A friend and this boy

By MasterDater of http://masterdater.modblog.com/

The scenario
So, I've got this friend. Let's call her Jenny. She's in High School and currently has a crush on someone. She's really trying to get his attention and trying to show that she REALLY likes him... But it seems that he doesn't even notice her. What to do...

The Answer
I hate to say this, but when it comes to guys these days, romantically challenged seems to fit quite well as a descriptor. In my opinion, romanticism has been dying ever since the birth of womens rights (let's leave that one for another day shall we?) As a result, you can't just give off signs and expect a guy to pick up on them. Hell, they probably aren't looking, or know how to recognize these signs.

You have to make a preemptive strike. That's right ladies, you can ask someone on a date, and not be considered intimidating. As a matter of fact, the "signs" are more likely going to get you labled as a slut by other girls, than just asking him on a date. It's as simple as asking if he's busy this upcoming weekend, and then asking if he would like to go out for dinner and a movie (or any other date you might have in mind.)

But, even if he agrees to go out with you, be sure to keep one thing in mind. DON'T TAKE THIS AS YOU TWO GOING STEADY!!! You are simply going on a date! You're trying things out, so don't be surprised if things don't go as well as you had hoped. Then again, that's what dating's all about. Seeing if he's really worth the effort to make a commitment to.

-MasterDater


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